Going through the phases..

is this Love? How does someone determine if they are in Love? and when did I fall in Love with this person? These are the 3 phases couples go through in a relationship...phase 1: is this Love? This is usually the beginning of the relationship but recycles to the end of the relationship(explain later) This is when the relationship is fresh and without major drama..the couple are in much infatuation with one another. the couple can grow a close friendship or bond that makes them seem closer then expected then the couple can grow like and lust with for one another. they cant stop thinking about one another. everything is amazing, but why? isn't this Love or is this Love? its hard to tell if your feeling are there because you really like this person or do you love this person? Answer is: temporary.. In my opinion you probably have to wait to get to phase two in order to determine is this Love? PHASE 2: How does someone determine if they are in Love? all the characteristic of phase one are relevant. they have the lust the friendship and the bond but there feeling are stronger.. this couple most likely have developed a use for each other not just a want for each other but a need. this need makes them important and each others life different from phase one there is now reason why they are in each other life besides the choice of being there. like in phase 1: the couple is in infatuation with one another. only in this phase the couple will do anything that the other one ask. they are each others super hero's there for the reuse.Phase 3 When did I fall in love with this person? is when the couple doesn't realize they fell in phase 2 this couple does any and everything for one another the good bad and the ugly. problem most likely developed by this phase, usually little things such as jealousy infidelity, and greed. that the couple can over come, but some times they cant and then conclusion of the relationship will present its self and like I mention,phase 1 recycles but differently the couple ask themselves Is this Love? the whole relationship is now problematic. it is now stale, too dramatic, and no reason to move forward.